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Female Erogenous Zones - Drive Her Wild
By zenshine | June 9, 2008
Female Erogenous Zones
So now that you’re on the road to becoming a better lover, learning where female erogenous zones are and how to stimulate them is the next step in your quest. Any or all of these special areas can be stimulated during foreplay or during sex.
The Neck:
The entire neck, especially the nape (the back side of the neck) is very sensitive to touch. Slowly and softly kissing this area while embracing her from behind is sure to start getting your lady in the mood. You may have to start at the side of the neck before coming around to the back of the neck because if you suddenly start at the nape it might cause a ticklish response rather than erotic.
The Ears:
The ears, especially the lobes, are very sensitive. When you’re kissing her neck, try flicking her lobe with your tongue, or sucking on it lightly for a moment.
The Breasts:
While this might seem obvious, I’m not just talking about the nipples. The underside of the breasts there the breast meets the body is very sensitive (think of where the wire part of her bra is cupping against her body). Run your tongue along this semi-circle and you’ll be suprised at how sensitive and erotic this is for her. As for the nipples, don’t just immediately go for a hard suck on them. Run your tongue around the areola in graduallys smaller and smaller circles until you reach the tip of the nipple. Flick the nipple around a bit with your tongue. Don’t suck hard on the nipple until she’s ready.
The Chest:
The area right where her ribs end and meet her abdomen is very sensitive, especially at the far sides. In fact, this area is so sensitive you till have to approach it very slowly. Lightly kiss along this area, pausing longer between kisses than you spend on the actual kiss. Cover the whole length along the rib on both sides and you’ll either drive her wild or make her ticklish depending on your lady.
The Inner Thighs:
This area usually ends up being a quick lead-in to reaching a woman’s genitals and it definitely shouldn’t be. This area is very sensitive and any light touching, licking or kissing will go a long way. Really spend some time here and consistently just stop short of her genitals. You’ll be driving her wild in no time.
The Backs of the Knees:
The backs of the knees are very sensitive and on many women are just plain ticklish. If your lady doesn’t suddenly jump when you touch this area then take the time to lightly touch here (but not too lightly) and kiss the area if she isn’t squirming from being tickled (squirming is anticipation or with pleasure is fine).
The Feet:
A lot of women get pleasure from the feet. Many don’t even know that they can be turned on this way and have never had a man touch them there in order to find out. A foot massage can go a very long way. Rub your thumbs into the padded area of the foot on the underside of where the toes are (the large padded area, not the pads of the toes). This area gets compressed a lot during walking and standing especially if she wears shoes with any kind of heel. Applying gentle but firm pressure here between the bones of the toes will work very well and bring unexpected pleasure. A foot massage along can turn a lot of women on.
The Buttocks:
This may seem as obvious as the breasts but rather than a simple groping of this area, try a real massage. The buttocks, like the feet, is compressed a lot during the day. There is a lot of muscle in this area beneath the fat, so really try to work out the tension. This area is also sensitive to a lot of kissing, so try that as well.
Other Possibilities:
Some say that the area behind the elbow is an erogenous zone. It does contain a lot of nerve endings, so it’s worth a try.
The vaginal and anal areas are obviously very sensitive erogenous zones but they each deserve their own posts (or perhaps their own series) so I will be covering those areas in upcoming posts.
Take your time with your lady and you’ll be duly rewarded. If she seems too tired for sex, go for the foot massage then go into a full back massage that also covers the inner thighs and the backs of the knees. She’ll melt in no time.
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