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Cunnilingus-Phobic Men: Wake Up
By zenshine | June 10, 2008
Cunnilingus Phobic Men
Before I get into my next post in the Sexual Performance series, I just had to address a topic that I am pretty passionate about - cunnilingus phobic men.
What does that mean? I’m talking about all the guys out there that will not give oral sex to women. The guys that say “that’s gross dude” when the subject comes up. They are usually very easy to spot because they will loudly speak out against performing cunnilingus at the slightest mention of the act. Unless of course, it’s girl-on-girl.
If you’re one of these guys, it’s time for a wake up call. Do you expect your lady to give you a blowjob without any thought of reciprocation? Is that simple and thoughtless selfishness? Or is it some kind of pro-male stance on the sexual revolution (you’re forty years too late, btw). You only get what you give. So if you are one of those guys, you probably can’t even imagine how good the oral sex you would receive would be if you gave it back.
There is nothing “gross” about the female genitals. Don’t get caught up in some false ideology that it “smells” down there. If you got down there and she did smell then something’s wrong. If you know your lady has recently taken a shower than you especially do not have an excuse. It’s not going to smell, so get down there.
Are you so deluded that you can look at the female genitals, find them attractive and want to insert your manhood into her (or your fingers for that matter) but you don’t want to get your mouth on them? The female genitals are wonderous and beautiful, not to mention unique to every single woman.
If you’re afraid about what the guys will think, then guess what? Don’t tell them. It really is that easy. In fact you might not even realize that most of the same people you’re worried about judging you do it themselves and don’t mention it. Why should you mention it? Just keep it private. This isn’t even taboo, why are you having such a sophomoric fear?
You need to realize that if you do it for her, it’s going to be a great feeling for you. Watch what kind of pleasure you’re causing for her - isn’t it amazing? It’s an amazing boost to your ego and confidence to know you can please a woman in that way. You’ll be rewarded by more than just reciprocation, so get on it.
Sorry to the guys who aren’t cunnilingus-phobic men, I didn’t mean to get in your faces. I just had to get this off my chest before I got on with the posts in this series.
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